Stop seeking for attention today !

不准哭...我不要装可怜无辜...................











But why can't people get it straight into their brains ?


Okay , let me go straight to the point .




I used to have this problem .

And people around me also have this same old problem some even worst .


which is .. Self sympathy .














Too much of it . cause serious problem .


when we're young , when we fall down , our parents will come ..


" are you okay ? are you hurt ? " and we'll go whining and crying .





Same problem when we're older .


When we're older , we meet failures or rejections in life ..


We go whining , crying and worst still come up with ..


" sigh , I'm so poor thing .. Why is my life so sucky and lousy .. "


they go out seeking for care , concern and attention ..


Make up stories , to show people how sad and poor state they're now going through .


but not finding a way to get out of the problem .








It's silly !


When after listening to all the encouragements and going back to the same old cycle !


Keep making the same mistake then give excuses to escape from things .





For me .. I whine ALOT .


But I know my limits and I know who can help me .


So when I'm in trouble , I'll look for shalynne my cgl or my family members .





I've met people before that's very weird .


When they're sad ,


they call up different people to tell them how sad they are .


telling one after another .


But still , standing at the same old ground .





Once , he accidentally cut his hand by some knives or whatever ..


And he went around telling people he's bleeding and doing nothing to it !!


Good griefs .








Another one , worst ..


Too bored already .


Come up with nice stories to bluff people around her to get attention .


saying that she got raped etc .














It's too silly of us human beings behaving like that isn't it ?

















hahaha..


sounding very judgemental .


But , sad to say .. Some people are too silly to fill themselves with self sympathy .


And cherlyn says , you guys gotta wake up !








Why go make yourself so sad and down when you can be happier ?


Why go attract attention by bluffing people when you already know that people around you do care about you ?


Why go and make yourself so sick and want people to take care of you ?


Why why why ?


人活的好好的，为什么去不博取同情.





You guys must be thinking ..


Most girls fall in this area .


I'm telling you . You are wrong .





I've seen more guys doing more silly things to get attention .





Emo one side for nothing while people are happily enjoying in an outing .


then refused to tell the people what happen ..


Spoiling the mood by telling people he's very upset .


just upset .. or just thinking about stuffs .





It's not wrong !


you aren't wrong when you wanna go think about your stuffs .


But spoiling the atmosphere is your fault .


Since we're out and happy , why go think about those sad stuffs ?


Go sing K also sit one side emo .. still got feel to carry on singing mehhhh ?





Duh!











But , please get it clear .


I'm not trying to say when you're sad or you meet trouble you can't tell people .


Be wise !


Don't say you're okay , you're fine and alright when you're not at all !


Tell the right person , that you think they can help you or encourage you .


After listening , Get that advise straight ...


Don't go and find more people and complain with . it won't help ,


At all !














Self sympathy .. if you don't kick away that habit ..


you're gonna affect people around you .











Some people seek alot for friends attention and forgotten that your friends actually also need space .


When they have their work in their hands , they never contact you ..


You , becoming very desperate and you lose your faith for you poor friend .


go on whining about your friend ain't a good friend .





goes down to yourself , ending up with no more confident with yourself anymore .








Then go on , you get easily jealous .


Because of you don't have somethings like ..can be possessions or treatment .


You go on and feel like it's unfair ..


you're being neglected , people forget you ..


etc etc .














NO !


cherlyn says ..


Life ain't like that .


You don't really need all this to go around your world my dear .


Open up open up some happiness !





If you yourself can't love yourself enough . it will never work .


Learn to open up . Trust the one you love .


Think about the people around you . They love you !





C'mon , Jesus loves you too !


such a awesome person to love you ! what more can you ask for ??




















If you're sick today .


Ask yourself if you're happy .








Sometimes , you're not sick .


it's just that you're feeding yourself with the wrong medicine .








Laughter is the best cure (:









If you have the courage to attempt suicide .
Why not use the same courage you have to carry on the road you're stepping on ?







Xoxo ,


Cher .