不准哭...我不要装可怜无辜...................
But why can't people get it straight into their brains ?
Okay , let me go straight to the point .
I used to have this problem .
And people around me also have this same old problem some even worst .
which is .. Self sympathy .
Too much of it . cause serious problem .
when we're young , when we fall down , our parents will come ..
" are you okay ? are you hurt ? " and we'll go whining and crying .
Same problem when we're older .
When we're older , we meet failures or rejections in life ..
We go whining , crying and worst still come up with ..
" sigh , I'm so poor thing .. Why is my life so sucky and lousy .. "
they go out seeking for care , concern and attention ..
Make up stories , to show people how sad and poor state they're now going through .
but not finding a way to get out of the problem .
It's silly !
When after listening to all the encouragements and going back to the same old cycle !
Keep making the same mistake then give excuses to escape from things .
For me .. I whine ALOT .
But I know my limits and I know who can help me .
So when I'm in trouble , I'll look for shalynne my cgl or my family members .
I've met people before that's very weird .
When they're sad ,
they call up different people to tell them how sad they are .
telling one after another .
But still , standing at the same old ground .
Once , he accidentally cut his hand by some knives or whatever ..
And he went around telling people he's bleeding and doing nothing to it !!
Good griefs .
Another one , worst ..
Too bored already .
Come up with nice stories to bluff people around her to get attention .
saying that she got raped etc .
It's too silly of us human beings behaving like that isn't it ?
hahaha..
sounding very judgemental .
But , sad to say .. Some people are too silly to fill themselves with self sympathy .
And cherlyn says , you guys gotta wake up !
Why go make yourself so sad and down when you can be happier ?
Why go attract attention by bluffing people when you already know that people around you do care about you ?
Why go and make yourself so sick and want people to take care of you ?
Why why why ?
人活的好好的，为什么去不博取同情.
You guys must be thinking ..
Most girls fall in this area .
I'm telling you . You are wrong .
I've seen more guys doing more silly things to get attention .
Emo one side for nothing while people are happily enjoying in an outing .
then refused to tell the people what happen ..
Spoiling the mood by telling people he's very upset .
just upset .. or just thinking about stuffs .
It's not wrong !
you aren't wrong when you wanna go think about your stuffs .
But spoiling the atmosphere is your fault .
Since we're out and happy , why go think about those sad stuffs ?
Go sing K also sit one side emo .. still got feel to carry on singing mehhhh ?
Duh!
But , please get it clear .
I'm not trying to say when you're sad or you meet trouble you can't tell people .
Be wise !
Don't say you're okay , you're fine and alright when you're not at all !
Tell the right person , that you think they can help you or encourage you .
After listening , Get that advise straight ...
Don't go and find more people and complain with . it won't help ,
At all !
Self sympathy .. if you don't kick away that habit ..
you're gonna affect people around you .
Some people seek alot for friends attention and forgotten that your friends actually also need space .
When they have their work in their hands , they never contact you ..
You , becoming very desperate and you lose your faith for you poor friend .
go on whining about your friend ain't a good friend .
goes down to yourself , ending up with no more confident with yourself anymore .
Then go on , you get easily jealous .
Because of you don't have somethings like ..can be possessions or treatment .
You go on and feel like it's unfair ..
you're being neglected , people forget you ..
etc etc .
NO !
cherlyn says ..
Life ain't like that .
You don't really need all this to go around your world my dear .
Open up open up some happiness !
If you yourself can't love yourself enough . it will never work .
Learn to open up . Trust the one you love .
Think about the people around you . They love you !
C'mon , Jesus loves you too !
such a awesome person to love you ! what more can you ask for ??
If you're sick today .
Ask yourself if you're happy .
Sometimes , you're not sick .
it's just that you're feeding yourself with the wrong medicine .
Laughter is the best cure (:
If you have the courage to attempt suicide .
Why not use the same courage you have to carry on the road you're stepping on ?
Xoxo ,
Cher .
